To many of us come from a space of desperate need to be validated and connected to so we feel worthy, nobody is going to be helped with this equation !
Lets take a moment to understand where we are coming from and if the person is ready and desiring to change, heal, transform.
Remember, the butterfly has to come out of the cocoon on it's own, any attempts to make it easier by opening it for it will mean that the butterfly won't fly and inadvertently die because of it.
TOXIC assistance is real.
LETS finish dysfunctional giving that enables both our dysfunctional patterns and those of the other people.
SUPPORT them to do the hard work for themselves, don't do it for them so you can a boost of ego and energy by doing it for them
STOP stealing their lessons away and bypassing your own.
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